Firstly, there is a dress-buying protocol for both mothers. Usually the mother of the bride should purchase her dress first. Her dress choice is meant to be an indicator of the tone and formality of the wedding. For example, if the mother of the bride chooses an evening gown, a formal choice, the mother of the groom should make a similar clothing choice. It is customary for the mother of the bride to inform the groom's mother of her outfit for the wedding day. This is meant to avoid over or under dressing, clashing colours, or other faux pas. If both mothers are friends or even just friendly, this is usually an easy and natural step. However, with many different types of weddings taking place, the bride's mother may neglect this step. In some cases, it may be necessary to call the mother of the bride and ask. Make this a friendly call, and if her dress choice is undecided, the groom's mother should not worry about her own outfit.

Secondly, the groom's mother should never wear white. This rule applies to all female guests at the wedding, but is especially inappropriate for the mother of the groom as she will be in the wedding pictures. Avoid colours that are close to white including cream and even a light tan colour. While chances are, no one will say anything; it is still a fashion choice that is considered rude. Black should also be avoided as it signified with mourning. Consider the dress colour of the bridesmaids and look for a colour that would be complimentary. For example, if the bridesmaids are wearing purple, consider a deep red colour that will compliment.

Thirdly, the mother of the groom outfit should be appropriate. Avoid strapless dresses and anything that is too low cut in the bust area or that goes above the knees. This does not mean that the outfit has to be dowdy, but rather that it should reflect a woman who is comfortable dressing in an age-appropriate way. When shopping for a dress or outfit, look for ones that are properly fitted and are flattering. A cap-sleeve, knee-length dress is appropriate for many weddings and is a flattering look for most women. Consider going shopping with the mother of the bride or a woman whose son has recently gotten married to get fashion and outfit tips.

These are few tips for choosing decent Dresses For Mother Of The Groom. If in doubt about an outfit, get a second opinion. Choosing a dress for the wedding should be an enjoyable event and by following these guidelines, finding the right outfit should be fairly easy.